New Love: This is where a woman feels that the love her husband used to show her has dwindled. The excitement then is rekindled when another man begins to give her that needed attention even to the extent that sex outside the marriage looks OK. As a husband, you must find time to revisit some of the places and things you used to do before marriage. Make your marriage more exciting than your courtship time!
New Sex: Men are tempted by new sex. This is where a man thinks “Wouldn’t it be fun if I did it with this one too? See how she looks!” Men want to expand their dominance and try new territories. As a wife, you must keep doing all the beautiful things that attracted the man to marry you. Keep in shape and spice up your sex life. Initiate sex and try new and exciting things. Tempt him! He’s your husband! Don’t forget that someone else is waiting out there to give in to his desires! Do not see romance and sex as a marital duty. It will only get worse and worse because sex as a chore is the most boring and difficult chore in any home. Incorporate it into every aspect of the marriage. Let your conversations be full of it. Play with it! Play into it! Enjoy it! Please note that this will not work unless the marriage is based on friendship.
Appreciation: Where a man or woman does not feel appreciated or cherished in their marriage, they are likely to fall for the few kind words that another person may offer. Don’t tear your marriage apart with wicked words! Your spouse is the best you deserve! Selfishness may only make you think that you deserve better only for you to lose what you already have and not get any better replacement. It’s a lie. You actually got your current spouse by grace. Love them, appreciate them. I have often seen a man leave his wife for another and then wonder if it was all worth it. It always seems to happen that the old was better than the new. Watch out and enjoy whatever you have now. It is your lot and you can make it to be what you want it to be.
Modern trends: Modern day culture and media - TV, magazines, films etc. all declare that it alright to have sex with anyone if it feels right. They make you feel like a fool for staying true with just one person. It’s a lie. It only leads to Hell here on earth and in the world hereafter.
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